Recreating Your World, An End to Negativity
Do you know how much time we waste dreaming up worst case scenarios that fuel our negativity? I do. I have a family member who does that and on top of it he/she still practices the false belief...
View ArticlePast, Present and Future Which Is More Important To You?
Past, present, and future which is more important to you? What do you spend your time thinking about? You can’t change the past; you can just reinforce the effect that it has on you in the present...
View ArticleHandling Your Emotions
English: Diagram which shows links between emotions, feelings and expression. (Photo credit: Wikipedia) Handling your emotions can be difficult because their origins are in both your conscious and...
View ArticleCreativity And Counterproductive Thinking
Is your thinking sometimes counterproductive? Do you think the same old thing over and over and it doesn’t do a thing for you or your situation? Do your thoughts often block your creativity and...
View ArticleWhen You Know You Are Alone in the World
How to make your life work for you. What you can do to help yourself. This is everybody’s responsibility to do for themselves. When did you first realize that you were alone in the world? Was it...
View ArticleRuminating? Is It Useful?
Have a problem you can’t solve? Has somebody hurt you? Do you like to talk it over with a friend or friends? Do you want to share your frustration or hurt feelings. Do you think it will make you...
View ArticleTake A Trip This Christmas And Leave Your Worries Behind
Take a trip this Christmas. It doesn’t matter where you go if you know you won’t have to do anything but enjoy the ride. That is what I am going to do when I take a Christmas shopping trip...
View ArticleThe Need For Security Comes From Within
Women, men? Does the need for security control your life? Are you afraid to fight with someone because it might end your relationship with them? Women, people who put you down, often the man in your...
View ArticleIt’s Their Drama, Not Yours
I learned a valuable lesson today: “It’s Their Drama, Not Yours! I’m a fixer-upper by nature and it doesn’t hurt that I am in a helping profession. “Did I hurt your feelings” Whose feelings are...
View ArticleThe Word Ambiguity Is Ambiguous-Curious? Read This Post
Many people have difficulty tolerating ambiguity. This may be just why our nation is so polarized right now between the left and the right, Trump haters and Trump supporters. Actually, ambiguity is...
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